Age 13. Bam. Done!

It is safest and best practice for children to wait to sit in the front seat until they are age 13.

The Centers for Disease Control, the National Highway Traffic Safety Administration and, most likely, even your airbag and car manufacturer recommend keeping children under age 13 in the back seat.

I say most likely your car manufacturer because I haven’t personally checked the passenger visors in every car to see if they ALL have the one of the warning labels shown above.


We notice a lot of children who are obviously not 13 sitting in the front seat. This is especially noticeable during our elementary school drop off and pick up.

When the child is so short you can just see the top of his head in the front seat, not only should he still be in the back seat but also in a seat belt positioner.

We get it. It’s hard. Even though our 11-year-old has been told he’ll need to wait until 13, he still asks to sit up front. And I know some of his friend’s parents allow him to. Why not, they allow their children to. Many Most of his friends are allowed to.

9 out of 10 parents allow their children to use the vehicle seat belt before they can properly pass the 5-step test so it’s no surprise that they’ll also allow their children to sit in the front seat prior to the recommended age of 13.

And while some states do have laws which require children to sit in the back seat most do not and of those that do many only go up to age 8.


CaliforniaGeorgiaHawaiiNew JerseyRhode Island and Tennessee laws require children to be in the rear seat properly restrained until age 8.

Delaware law doesn’t allow children to sit in the front seat until they are 12 years old or 65″ tall.

Maine law doesn’t allow children to sit in the front seat until the child is age 12 or 100 pounds.

Washington law doesn’t allow children to sit in the front seat of the car until age 13.

Puerto Rico law requires children to remain in the back seat of the car until age 12.

Once again occupant restraint laws are commonly the minimum standard to follow as they are typically a compromise between “best practice” and what lawmakers think their constituents will tolerate.


We often hear, “but I sat up front and I’m fine.” That’s true. Most of us adults did sit in the front seat when we were children. Some of us adults sat in all kinds of places that would be considered compromising our safety these days. For instance, because of lack of seating, I often was squished into the hatchback of my mom’s Mazda RX-7 while my brother only 2 years older was in the front seat. And Greg often shared the cargo space of their station wagon with one of his 8 siblings.

A lot of things have changed since then such as the number of cars on the road and the speed at which they travel. Most importantly what has changed is our knowledge of crash dynamics and occupant safety.


1. Location, location, location. The back seat is the safest place for your children — actually safer for everyone regardless of age, height or weight — because most crashes occur in the front of the car and the back seat is farthest from this impact. So in general there is a lower risk of injury for back seat passengers.

2. Air bags are designed for a 140-pound man wearing a seat belt. (I know fellow women under 140 pounds, we don’t fit the ideal range either kind of like seat belts are not designed for us, much less pregnant women. But what are car manufacturers to do? They have to use some average.)

Airbags are not designed for children who are much lighter and smaller. As such airbags can cause serious injury to children below the height requirement by hitting them in the face, chest, neck or head at speeds of between 90 to 210 miles per hour.

Nationwide, more than 100 children have been killed by air bags in recent years, and many of these deaths were in slow-speed collisions that should have been minor.

Also older children are more likely to have the maturity to stay sitting properly and keep their body out of the deployment zone of the airbag.

3. Bone development. Kids may be as big as adults on the outside but their skeletal system is still developing.

According to a study in , children who are 12 years old or younger have iliac crests that are less developed than those of adults. (The iliac crest is the point part of the hip bone which keeps the seat belt properly positioned on the hips.) This can allow the seat belt to ride up over the abdomen, causing seat belt syndrome.

Children’s breast bones, or sternum, are not fully developed yet either. While this may not fully develop until a few years later, waiting until at least 13 gives it more time to get stronger. Without a mature skeletal system, a child in at increased risk of injury.


Generally speaking it’s allowed to have a child sit in the front seat if all the rear seats are occupied by other children. 

Other exceptions may be if your car has no back seat or if your back seat has lap belts only and no shoulder restraints and your child rides in a booster, he’s safer in the front seat than in the back.

If you do end up with a child in the front seat, turn the airbag off or take it to the dealership to have them disable it. Some vehicles have “smart” airbags which can detect the weight in the front seat and automatically turn off if the weight is low enough to not trigger it.

In the end, you are the parent and you can make the choice to tell your child safety trumps their being “cool”.


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